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What if my Atlanta roommate is a red stater or a blue stater?

Saturday, March 06, 2010

There are a few topics that we are always told to not talk about with people. Discussions about religion, politics and even sports can sometimes be so passionate that fights almost break out, but if you are a hardcore sports or politics junkie, than it can be tough to keep a major part of your life away from your roommate. Atlanta apartments is a diverse city that is filled with traditional red state voters and many blue state liberal voters, as well. If you have recently gotten a new roommate only to realize that they are of a far different political stripe than you, you don’t have to hole up in your room for the next year. Take this opportunity to explore the differences you have and you may find out that you really aren’t that different at all.

The first thing you need to explore is if you are capable of having a passionate discussion about politics without it getting hateful or dangerous. If you are so passionate about your beliefs that the idea of someone contradicting you makes your blood boil, than it is probably a good idea to not only avoid the topic of politics altogether, but you might want to start looking for a new place to live.

If you are confident that you can share your opinions without getting too worked up, than try to open up a discussion about politics at some point. You could try watching a political show on television or maybe a news show to get things started. Ask your roommate why they vote for the party they do or why they support the candidates they do and see what is behind their vote. Once we sit down and learn that those on the other side aren’t irrational or crazy, it can really foster an understanding into how our political process woks, and that can only help our society as a whole.


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Moving in with your lover: a few easy to follow tips

Saturday, March 06, 2010

So you’ve fallen in love and you find yourself ready to make the big leap of moving in with your significant other. While this may sound fine and dandy on the surface, it can open up a whole can of worms that you didn’t expect. Here are a few essential tips for moving in with that special someone.

Unless the person you are moving in with has a huge apartment, they won’t have room for everything you own. They likely own a sofa, television, artwork and many other things that you do, so, which gets to stay and which gets to go? Even if one person has significantly nicer things than the other, you should try to divide things up evenly so it doesn’t become a point of contention later on down the road. It might be one of the most important conversations your relationship ever has.

Even if you’ve been staying together for a while, it may turn out that one of you is a night person and the other is a morning person, or it could be that one of you is a slob and the other is very neat. Make sure all of these personality quirks are known before you decide to move in with each other. You don’t want to find out two weeks in that you’re completely incompatible.

Finally, clear, concise communication is absolutely key to this working out over the long term. Living with a stranger can be stressful and the only way you’ll get through it is with proper communication.


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Learning to love living with an Atlanta area vegan roommate

Saturday, March 06, 2010

Even though the city of Atlanta is one massive place, it is going to be almost impossible t you have evero find someoneything in common with. One area that many people don’t think about as being a point of conflict is diet. The overwhelming majority of Atlanta residents eat meat on a daily basis, but a growing segment of the population subscribes to a vegetarian or even vegan diet. If you aren’t the cleanest person in the world and if you aren’t willing to make some sacrifices when it comes to food prep, keeping your dishes clean and storing your food in separate places than your roommate, than you may not be able to get this relationship to work, but if you are all about keeping an open mind and bending a little when it comes to how you live, having a vegan roommate can be a wonderful learning experience.

To genuinely make a vegan-meat eater roommate relationship work, both parties need to resolve to not try to convert the other person. Now, that doesn’t mean that the two parties can’t work together to try to expose the other to the virtues of each other’s lifestyle. Learning about new things with your roommate is one of the most exciting parts of living with a stranger. You can start with taste testing food products that you have never tried before. Of course, this could be a one-way street if your vegan roommate doesn’t really want to try meat based meals, but you can always try vegan or vegetarian products that your roommate enjoys eating. If your vegan roommate is concerned about the inhumane way that animals are slaughtered, maybe both of you could make an effort to learn about free range farms that only use humane slaughtering techniques and try eating products from there. Living with someone different than you is all about making sacrifices and learning new ways of living. You never know what the future might hold, so don’t let a chance like this pass you by.


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How to resolve time disputes in your Atlanta apartment

Saturday, March 06, 2010

When we go searching for the perfect roommate, we all have our own list of priorities. Some of us want to find a roommate who works at the same place we do so we can carpool, while others may search for a roommate that likes the same nightlife, movies or music so there aren’t any conflicts in that area. One thing that many roommates overlook until it is too late is finding someone who has the same sleeping patters as they do. Finding a morning person or night person isn’t tough, but it is one big time question that many people forget to ask. Here are a few tips for resolving any time conflicts that might come up.

Living with someone who has a completely different sleep pattern than you doesn’t have to be impossible. It is all about communication and respect for your fellow roommate. The first step is getting to know the other person’s schedule so that you know when to be quiet around the apartment. Try posting each other’s schedules around the apartment so you know when you have to be quiet and when you can sit back and relax. If problems come up and one of you feels that the other isn’t doing what they should, make sure you sit down and talk everything out right away so that the problem can be rectified.

You should also make sure that the apartment is clean and useable when each of you need it to be. One of you may eat late at night and leave dishes in the sink that could get in the way of the person who has to get up early and make their lunch so they can take it to work. It is almost impossible to foresee circumstances like this from happening, so you are just going to have to make a commitment to communicate openly and honestly should problems arise.


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How to handle living with a slob of a roommate

Saturday, March 06, 2010

For years, The Odd Couple made people all around the world laugh with its mismatched roommates living together. One was a slob and the other was neat, and it made for great television as they tried to figure out living together, but what if the Odd Couple is more than just a television show to you? If this sounds like your reality, here are a few things you can do to keep your sanity in one piece.

Start by setting some ground rules about how neat or messy your apartment can be before there is a problem. Everyone has a different standard of what is neat and what is messy, so sometimes, all it takes is basic communication for the two of you to see eye to eye. Just like in a marriage, communication is the key to happy living.

If you feel that basic communication and consideration isn’t working, try bringing in a third person arbitrator to hear both of your sides and agree before hand that you will follow the arbitrator’s ruling. Try not to put a mutual friend in this position as it could be very uncomfortable. Instead, try to use a landlord or even a stranger.

Finally, if things get to be too much to handle, don’t be afraid to move out or to ask your roommate to move out. Life if far too short to spend it picking up after someone you don’t even like, so if you have to move, than do it.


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How to get over music differences with your Atlanta roommate

Saturday, March 06, 2010

One of the reasons why so many people choose to live with apartments along with roommates is that it serves as a constant learning experience day after day. While we do what we can to match up our preferences with a new roommate, there are going to be certain things that we don’t have in common, such as a similar taste in movies, music or literature. A person can view this discrepancy as a bad thing and have it cause problems, or they can use it as a learning experience to open themselves up to a whole new world. Let’s take a look at just a few things you can do if you find that your roommate likes completely different things than you do.

While it may sound a bit like an old fashioned sleep over, you could have a night where the two of you pick a favorite CD or movie and each have the other person watch or listen to it back to back. You can even make a whole evening out of it. Pop some popcorn, have a meal together and open your minds to each others worlds. You may find that you are a completely different person when the evening is finished.

You can even take this sharing of music and movies to the next level by going out and taking each other to events. You can even bring along your regular friends and start going out together as a group. No one sets out to be best friends with their roommate, but you may find that your friendship and living arrangement works out much better when the two of you make an honest effort to get to know each other. By taking an interest in each other’s lives and likes, you will grow as a person and as a roommate.


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Easy tips on living with an Atlanta roommate who is a different religion than you

Saturday, March 06, 2010

Living with a roommate is all about dealing with outside influences that impact your day to day routine. A good roommate takes these challenges and learns from them and becomes a stronger person in the apartment, but once in a while, you can run into a situation that is so incompatible, that no progress can be made and a major change needs to happen. If you find yourself living with a roommate that is of a different religion than you, you can use this experience to broaden your horizons and learn about a new way to worship or you can try to isolate yourself from this outside influence. Although opening up your defenses is a far more productive way to live, you shouldn’t feel threatened by your roommate’s religion, so you should think long and hard and make the best choice for you.

If you do choose to open up your mind, there are several fun activities you and your roommate can do together to learn about each other’s faith. You can have a night where you read to each other from your holy books, or you can make a day out of going to a worship ceremony together. Many people view religion and worship as a very private thing that doesn’t really lend itself well to exploration, but the truth is that churches, synagogues and other places of worship are always welcoming in new people, whether it be for a one time service or for a permanent change in faith. Don’t be afraid to explore new ways to believe or to worship within your own community, especially if you live with someone who can show you around.

Living with someone with a different faith can be very trying and difficult if you don’t handle it the right way. By making an effort to learn, you can really make an impact that can last for years to come.


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Best bonding spots for you and your roomie in Atlanta

Saturday, March 06, 2010

Atlanta is the headquarters for the New South and few other cities in America have the money and the possibilities that Atlanta has, so it is no wonder that folks from all over the country and all over the world are flocking to this city in droves. Finding a good roommate in Atlanta is easy, but bonding with one can be tough. Let’s take at a few activities you can partake in to help bond with your new roommate in beautiful Atlanta.

One thing that makes Atlanta such a great place to live in is the fact that there are sporting events practically ever day. Even if you don’t know a football from a baseball, going to a sporting event can be a great bonding experience because there is often so much else going on around you that just about everyone is entertained. In Atlanta, the Braves baseball team plays home games from April to September, the Falcons football team, as well as several college teams like Georgia Tech play in the fall and winter and the basketball Hawks and the hockey Thrashers play in the winter and spring.

Atlanta is a city that loves its parks, and one of the amazing leftovers from the Olympics being help here is Centennial Olympic Park, located right in the middle of downtown. Head there on a sunny day, even in the middle of winter, and there are plenty of things going on. Impromptu games of hacky sack, volleyball and more break out every day, or you could simply pack a picnic or just get take out and eat it in the park. You can’t help but bond when you share a meal or just a nice walk through this beautifully manicured park in the middle of downtown Atlanta.


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